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Finding a nice place where the
two of you can enjoy a slow dance is a great way to spend time together, holding each other without
saying a word. Keep in mind that to accomplish this, you can stay home and
simply move some furniture out of the way, light some candles, and put on your
favorite soft music and enjoy some quiet, romantic time together. 86.
Sunrise/Sunset Too often people miss the beautiful miracle of a
sunrise or sunset. Schedule time to get up early one morning with a thermos of
hot coffee or cappuccino and find a quiet place where the two of you can go
just to watch the sun rise or set. Appreciate what nature has to offer and
share it with each other. 87.
Explorations Find something they you are both interested in
exploring and do it together. For example, if you live in a place where there
are caves, make a day of driving around and exploring caves. Be sure to take
the right equipment and safety precautions but this puts you both in a position
of trusting each other and discovering something new and exciting together. 88.
To
Tell or Not to Tell Experts will disagree on how much of a person’s past
should be shared in a relationship and while some things probably should be
shared, most people lean more to not sharing every aspect of the past. First, it
is the past. Think back to how much people grow through the teen years to
mid-twenties. Offering unnecessary information from the past is a great way to
create distrust, insecurity, and more questions than answers. Be wise when
sharing. 89.
Respect
Privacy When
two people come together in a relationship, each person has their own set of
history. There are yearbooks, maybe love letters from a first love, other
objects that may not seem important to one person but to the owner, they have a
special meaning. It is important to respect the privacy of your mate’s “stuff.”
Do not dig through boxes of things owned by your mate out of curiosity.
Instead, allow them to bring those things out if they feel it is necessary. By
helping yourself, you are disrespecting something sacred to your mate, which is
not healthy for any relationship. 91.
No
Place for Abuse Regardless of how much you love your mate and believe in who they are, there is NEVER an appropriate time for abuse, whether physical, emotional, or verbal. If your
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