Nobody, not one of us, is complete without a partner; and it is to
satisfy this need that people date. Because of this, the rest of this manual
will be dedicated not to finding the right sex partner, but to finding the
right life partner.
Online Dating Is Here To Stay
Let’s accept the fact that dating couldn’t really get better. Online
dating is THE real thing. Let’s compare it to the old system of evening
balls or social gatherings. Imagine you are this big gathering where there are
a lot of men and women looking out for suitable partners.
Suppose you bump into one or two people with whom you seem to strike an
immediate rapport. You are then able to take this person out onto a balcony
with just the moon to keep an eye on you.
You get to talk to this person for hours and hours; just talk and
nothing else. You get to discuss likes and dislikes and finally when it is time
to part you leave with a promise to meet on a following day at an equally
enjoyable spot. These talks go on for days and weeks and finally you decide
that this indeed is the THE person with whom you want to spend the rest of your
life with.
Then of course you start meeting in more open places, you hold hands and
even kiss. You begin to go out for lunch and dinner and spend even more
intimate time together. When the moment is right and your decision is made, it
then becomes time for you to say, “I do.”
Sigh! It sounds like a nice fairy tale, doesn’t it?
Well it needn’t be. It could be your own love story because the concept
of online dating is just what has been described above. If you click the right
buttons everything could work out fine for you and we have evidence to prove
it. Just take a look at the figures given below and you can behold for yourself
what a universal phenomenon online dating has already become.
As I mentioned earlier, one of the best things about online dating is
that it affords a lot of privacy. You can chat for hours, video conference, or
do whatever it is you care to do without arousing the interest of others or
attracting the wrong kind of attention. All you need is a computer and Internet
access everything becomes as discreet as can be. But along with that, may I add
that we need a little bit of common sense as well or else we might find
ourselves within the clutches of many lurid monsters lurking out there.
Another good thing about online dating is that it saves a lot of money
which otherwise you would have had to splurge each time you took someone out on
a date. It is because