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1.
Flirting can help you make friends or impress a
client if you make yourself approachable. Put a smile on your face, as it gives
you an aura of being friendly. 2.
Remember that you cannot attract people just by
sitting or standing like a statue. There will be instances when you will
encounter a person who gets a little bit too close for comfort feel, or someone
who makes you feel you are already invading privacy. No matter what you do, you
would get a so-called “vacuum” reaction. Tough one, huh? You can avoid this by
using gentle moves and by calibrating the person’s reactions to you. Be aware
of these signals: mouths get larger, the lips swell, eyes widen, pupils dilate,
skin flushes and changes color, muscles around the mouth move, among others. 3.
Be persistent. Flirting works best when you are
patient. By being such, you will have room for improvement if at first you
aren’t getting the results you want. If you fail the first time, do it again
the second time, third time, just keep trying. Try different approaches until
you realize what will really work best for you. If you were rejected, don’t
give up. This goes with the sayings, “To err is human” and “Nobody’s perfect.” This is probably for me the most interesting and somehow funniest tip I got: “Practice in the mirror, only then can you make it perfect!” This is especially true in meeting friends and prospects, because flirting may involve unwanted actions and attention which can put you in the bad light. You may be spontaneous in your actions, but you can’t guard yourself if you are already
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