shouldn’t have the feeling that as soon as you open your
mouth they will have to be subjected to hearing about what you did and where
you went on your latest date, and what you think about the person.
It’s even
worse if the person whom you are dating is someone at work or within the same
company that you work. Even if that person is in a different department or at a
different site, it’s best to maintain a high level of privacy about your dating
relationship. Otherwise it is sure to become known to everyone, because even if
the person is at another site, there is sure to be others who will have some
contact with fellow workers at that site.
While you also
should not blab about date, you also shouldn’t be telling everyone about
personal habits or ways of your date that you have learned about through seeing
the person and going out. Personal relationships are just what they are –
personal. So if you talk to just about anyone and tell them about the type of
person your date is, tell them things that are known only to you, then you are
violating the personal aspect of the dating relationship.
And just as
important, or even more important, is disclosing private, personal information
about your date. This includes for example, health, financial or family-related
information that your date may have disclosed to you in confidence. And
although some personal information such as one’s address, phone number and
email address is partially public, you also shouldn’t give that information
about your date to just anyone.
In relation to the person who you are dating, there also
are things that will directly affect the individual that you shouldn’t do. You
shouldn’t post a picture of the person anywhere on the Internet without their
permission. You also shouldn’t be inconsiderate and do things like calling your
date at anytime, such as extremely late at night and very early in the morning.
Night