This
idea might sound strange, but it is actually true. The idea is that it is
possible to grow to like the looks of a person. Once you find the character of
the person agreeable you will start liking the person as a whole. It is
entirely possible to fall in love with a person if the person does not look
like a movie star. That is one of the tricks that nature plays.
There
are many people who insist on taking a look at the other person’s picture
before actually committing to a relationship. They might have their reasons of
course, but I, for one, feel that such a decision based largely on looks is
more suitable for a casual relationship. It is bound to sizzle off after some time.
After all, how long can you keep staring at a person? And what happens if the
person doesn’t stare back at you?
Or
even worse, what happens if you find the person staring at another person?
Looks may be important, but they certainly are not the most important thing and
should never be used as the deciding factor if you are thinking about a serious
relationship.
Common
Interests
A
human being is not like a piece of glass though which you can look and see the
other side. A human being is more like a diamond, which when held against light
reflects and deflects light so that a myriad of colors are seen. We’re complex.
We
have a lot of interest and the interests of one person need not match with the
interests of another. But