Some
one once said that a friend is some one who knows all about you and loves you
just the same. So there is no need to hide things about you. Of course you do
not have to tell the person every ghastly, gory detail about yourself, but at
the same time you do not have to conjure up stuff about you that just is not
true.
If
at all you do paint a very rosy picture about yourself, including things that
just are not true, or are far fetched exaggerations, and the other person does
flip for you, in reality you will be basking in another person’s glory. This
picture you have painted is just not you.
Your
alter ego
When
you choose a handle to identify yourself by, you have to be sharp. Do not try
to attract as many partners as possible. After all, what are we looking for,
quality or quantity? Try to attract only the kind of people you are interested
in and who would find you interesting.
That
is why we suggested that you use a handle that better defines the kind of
person you are. Do not try to sound like a sex god or a sex goddess. If you
are, let the other person decide for him self or her self; (it is much better
than having the person come up with statements like “is it in yet?”) So steer
clear of handles like Megastud, Handsomehunk, Superbabe or Bedlover.
Instead
of that you could try handles that gives one an immediate idea about the kind
of person you are. If you are an outdoor person use something like Natureguy or
Naturegirl; if you are a music freak use something like Musicman or Musicmaid.
If you are into theatre and stuff