Step 4:  Meeting Face To Face

 

        Once you have started talking over the telephone, then the relationship has already taken wings, then is no reason to postpone a direct meeting.  So what are we waiting for? But wait; there is no need to push it. You should not sound over anxious to meet this girl or guy.

 

        Let the decision to meet evolve over a number of telephone calls. And there are certain things that you can bear in mind before you really meet.

 

The Rendezvous

 

        It is not advisable to invite someone home before you have really met the person. You had better choose a public place preferably somewhere where there are plenty of people around, just in case, you know.

 

        That is why most couples prefer to meet in a restaurant over lunch or dinner. There is one thing about having food together. When people sit together and have food together they get to know a lot about each other.

 

        Table manners tell us a lot about a person’s upbringing and background and you can learn a lot about a person by observing him or her eat. The second thing is that warm food has a wonderful effect on the human mind. It releases all those digestive juices and sets the tongue wagging. People loosen up a lot, especially after a glass of wine or two.