Take care to be at the arranged spot on
time, you certainly do not want to keep a person you are meeting for the first
time waiting. Dress appropriately for the occasion, keep it simple but at the
same time it should be something that looks good on you.
Leaving
Your Mark Behind
Now, suppose this date did work out as
planned and you really and thoroughly enjoyed the company of the other person
you would want the other person to remember you and think about you, wouldn’t
you? So how do you make sure that the other person does think about you?
The answer is simple. Just leave your
mark behind. Mind you, a business or visiting card is not appropriate here. It
lends a very formal color to the picture. Surely you do not want the person to
remember you for your credentials or your designation. Something more
personalized would be more appropriate.
Put your artistic and creative talents
into full gear. If you are poetic, you could pen down a few lines on a small
card and hand it to the person. Mind you, the lines should not be about the
person, but about general topics like friendship, relationships, togetherness,
warmth, or meetings. But do the writing in advance and keep it for the right
moment. Do not try to write a poem on a paper napkin with the person sitting in
front of you!
If
you can’t write poetry, maybe you could get some dried flowers and stick them
onto a card and copy