But when you are actually seated in
front of a person, there are a thousand things that you have to pay attention
to. There are many people who believe that it is not really important to keep
up appearances. They feel that it is more important to be oneself.
It sounds good enough. But on your first
date at least you certainly have to keep up appearances. The other person
should not feel ashamed to be seen around with you and so you should try as
hard as possible to avoid that faux pas.
Let us start with your physical
appearance. While I did mention earlier that you do not have to be dressed to
kill, it is very important that you have to appear well groomed. Take special
care about things like nails, hair, and teeth. Check for bad breath too because
that indeed is the worst turn off.
What you wear should not be loud and
attract the wrong kind of attention. Choose something that you are comfortable
in and at the same time that looks good on you. Ladies, please be careful about
your make-up, and remember that make-up is meant to accentuate your looks not
to hide it. It is best to avoid garish colors..
You should smell good of course but
don’t over do it. We certainly don’t want you to remain in the other person’s
memory as just one strong smell. Men, please take care to go in for masculine
scents like musk, or smells from nature. Women, keep it as light and dainty as
possible.
The
Secret is Charm