and the lack
of love are governed by "auto-suggestion"? It is natural
to love, as
every child does. But as we grow up we keep saying to
ourselves
(this is auto-suggestion, you know) that we "don't like this,"
and we
"don't like that," until really we shut up our love and live in
a continual
state of "don't like" - a state which in due time develops
into hate -
hate for self as well as others. "Don't like" does it all.
Now cultivate
love by auto-suggestion. Keep saying, "I like this,"
and "I
like that." Hunt for things to like, and even tell yourself you
like things
when you don't feel that you like them at all.
Feeling is a
result of suggestion. Nothing easier to prove than that.
A hypnotist
can, by suggestion, make you feel almost anything, whether
it is true or
not. He will say, "You feel sad," and straightway you will
feel so. Then
he will say, "You feel happy," and you do. Your feelings
are like a
harp, and your statements, or auto-suggestions, are the
fingers which
pick the strings. Take good care to play the tunes you
want - to say
you like things, or love them. Then you will quickly
respond and
feel that you like or love them. Keep practicing until
you love all
the time. Then you will be loved to your
heart's
content.