yesterday, be the cause of this terrible evil which has befallen

yesterday, be the cause of this terrible evil which has befallen

him? - and he slides completely over the real cause. And keeps on

repeating it.

 

Self-righteousness, by blinding your eyes to the truth, is the direct

cause of the most gigantic and the most subtle miseries of the world.

These awfully good people who fully realize how hard they have always

tried to do right, are the unhappiest people in the world - unless I

except Tom, Dick, Harry and Fan, the victims of these self-righteous

reformers. No, I can't even except these; for they at least generally

succeed in having their own way in spite of the would-be reformer. But

what so utterly disheartening as continued lack of success? And the

self-righteous one never succeeds. It is hard, hard, to be so wise and

willing, with such high ideals (the self-righteous one in» strong on

ideals), and never to succeed in making Tom, Dick and Harry conform to

them. Do you see why Jesus said so often, "Woe comes to the Pharisee"

 - the self-righteous? And why he called them hypocrites? Of course they

are unconscious of their hypocrisy - self-righteousness blinds them to

the truth; they think others are to blame for most of the

self-righteous one's own hard conditions.

 

The self-righteous one is doomed to a tread-mill of petty failures. He

goes round and round his own little personal point of view and

learns nothing.

 

It is by getting at the other fellow's point of view that we learn

things - about him and ourselves, too. When the self-righteous one wakes

up to the fact that the world is full of people whose points of view

are just exactly as right and wise and ideal as his own; and begins to

feel with, and PULL WITH these other people, instead of against them;

when he does this he will find himself out of the treadmill to stay.

As he shows a disposition to consider other people's ideals and help

others in the line they want to go, he will find the whole world eager

to help him in the way he wants to go. The self-righteous one works

alone and meets defeat. The one who, recognizing his own righteousness

in intent, yet forgets not that others are even as he, is the true

friend and be-friended, of all the world.

 

Now don't let this homily slip off your shoulders. We are all

self-righteous in spots, and none of us is so very wise that he cannot

by self-examination and readjustment learn a lot more.

 

Each soul in its place is wisest and best. Don't you try to get into

the pilot house and steer things for Tom, Dick, or Harry. Stay in your

own and steer clear of the rocks of anger, malice, revenge, resentment,

re-sistance, INTERFERENCE and immoderation.

 

 

 



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