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7 Secrets of being Happy Again, Finding True Happiness After Divorce INDEX: Introduction
Conclusion Chapter 1 “The Basic Steps to Recovering From a Divorce” When you've been the "victim"
of a divorce, the first thing you MUST UNDERSTAND and BEGIN BELIEVING is that
YOU ARE NOT GOING TO DIE BECAUSE OF IT- Regardless of how badly you feel, you
must realize that it has happened to millions of people before you; it is
happening to countless people every day; and it will continue to happen to
millions of people so long as there is love, marriage and divorce. Although you may never have felt such
pain in your life before, YOU WILL GET OVER IT. It takes time, but you will
recover and find love again. It's imperative that you understand this, and
believe it, even if you have to write it in big letters on your bedroom mirror,
type it out on a 3 x 5 card you carry with you in your wallet, or say it aloud
to yourself every hour on the hour. You must at the same time, understand
that people suffering from divorce go through certain predictable phases of
thinking and acting as they begin to recover. In order to cope with the
insecurity, uncertainty, and emotional damage you've suffered, you should
understand that it's only natural that you go through each of these phases, and
that as a result, you will again be a happy person. Perhaps the second hardest thing the person who has been "victimized" in a
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