Master the MAGIC of Body Language, by Jorge Pinkus — How to Understand,
Speak and Finally Master the Magic
of Non-Verbal Language, Movement and Emotion
This
is probably for me the most interesting and somehow funniest tip I got: ³Practicein th em
irror, only th en can you m akeitperfect!´ This is especially true in meeting friends and prospects, because
flirting may involve unwanted actions and
attention, which can put you in the bad light. You may be spontaneous in your actions,
butyou can ’tgu ard you rself if you are already overdoing it, an d Isupp osed
you
don’tw antto bein th at situation . T ry practicing w ith yourclosef riends and
ask for feedback.
Make the first move!
Opportunities knock only once, so if you want something or even someone, go for it, now! Let go of your
inhibitions. But remember to apply positive or good flirting. Who knows
if the person you meet at that moment is your
gateway towards the fulfillment of your dreams.
LET YOUR BODY ATTRACT
Do
you know why some people seem to have an easier time attracting the op posite sex? H ere’s
w h atyou can to do in order to catch th e eye ofyou r H on ey Bunch.
Smile
sin cerely and frequently. In hisarticle ³The Six D on Juan Com m
andm ents ofBody Language,´ Alen Thom wrote th atsm ilin g is³The sim plest, m ostobvious, and m ost pow erful of th ebodylanguagecom m andm ents.´
He
also mentions that:
«Smiling conveys, both instantly and clearly, many
wonderful things about yourself. Smiling demonstrates confidence, friendliness, a positive
attitude, a good m ood,and itgives th e im
pression th atyou’re som eone who is,m ostlikely,fun to bew ith .
It’salso verydifficult to ig nore.»
Have
a sense of humor. Learn to laugh at petty matters. People love to be with those
who can turn any situation into a funny setting.
Maintain
eye contact. Your eyes are probably the most expressive parts of your body.
When you look at your dear one constantly, you are expressing your sincere
intentions. Eye contact also establishes a bond between two persons. They would
naturalyfeel m orecom fortablein each oth er’scom pany.
Nod
your head. By nodding, you signify your approval and you encourage the other
party to continue talking. You give reassurance that your loved one is doing
ok.
Be open, physically.
Do not cross your arms across the chest or hold obstructive objects (such as a food) between the two of
you. Put your hands on your sides (and if
possible put your palms up) to convey openness.
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