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You go out of your way to avoid being
together and, when you are together, you have nothing to talk about. ·
Your children are reacting to the
stress in your marriage by fighting more, having difficulty in school, getting
into trouble with the police, abusing drugs or alcohol, or becoming sexually
promiscuous. ·
You have begun having thoughts about
divorce. ·
When
you’re not around your partner, you act more confident and in control Don't panic if you find that your marriage exhibits some of
these characteristics — you are not necessarily headed for divorce court.
However, you do have cause for concern and it's time for you and your spouse,
first separately and then together, to assess your options and decide what to
do next. Some couples choose to see a marriage counselor, and this
can be an excellent way to figure out where exactly your marriage started to
get into trouble. But you can regain the
wonderfulness of your marriage yourself if you are committed to working toward
that end result. STARTING DOWN THE
ROAD TOWARDS ROMANCE Most experts agree that the best way to start back on the
road to a blissful marriage is to rekindle the romance that you had early on in
your relationship. Maybe you would get
your wife flowers just because. Perhaps
you would leave your husband little notes to show your love. After awhile, those little gestures start to seem less important. You just stop doing those things for your partner
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