·        You go out of your way to avoid being together and, when you are together, you have nothing to talk about.

·        Your children are reacting to the stress in your marriage by fighting more, having difficulty in school, getting into trouble with the police, abusing drugs or alcohol, or becoming sexually promiscuous.

·        You have begun having thoughts about divorce.

·        When you’re not around your partner, you act more confident and in control

 

Don't panic if you find that your marriage exhibits some of these characteristics — you are not necessarily headed for divorce court. However, you do have cause for concern and it's time for you and your spouse, first separately and then together, to assess your options and decide what to do next.

 

Some couples choose to see a marriage counselor, and this can be an excellent way to figure out where exactly your marriage started to get into trouble.  But you can regain the wonderfulness of your marriage yourself if you are committed to working toward that end result.

 

 

STARTING DOWN THE ROAD TOWARDS ROMANCE

 

Most experts agree that the best way to start back on the road to a blissful marriage is to rekindle the romance that you had early on in your relationship.  Maybe you would get your wife flowers just because.  Perhaps you would leave your husband little notes to show your love.

 

After awhile, those little gestures start to seem less important.  You just stop doing those things for your partner



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