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should be rekindled. It will be by those who are working at
having happier marriages. You must change your state of mind if you want to realize
success in bringing your marriage back to a newlywed state. THINKING FOR A
HEALTHY MARRIAGE There are certain attitudes and actions
that can help bring romance back to your marriage. Adopting these attitudes can help keep
romance alive or revive it in ways you never thought possible. When you get frustrated over your
husband’s laziness or sick to death of your wife’s nagging, look at this list
and put them to use. You might be quite
surprised at what a change they can make! First, Learn compassion and acceptance.
Realize that your partner is human, no matter how perfect he or she seemed in
the beginning. He is going to do things that bug you. She is going to do things
to disappoint you. Expect this. In fact, is there any relationship of any type
where this is not the case? Try to have as much compassion for and acceptance
of your partner as you do for your friends. Most importantly, remember your partner is not imperfect to hurt you. His or her
imperfections are not an indication of lack of love for you. Communicate, communicate, and communicate negative emotions. Communicate when you feel hurt. Communicate when you need something to change.
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