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You may not always agree with the way he handles a crisis
situation for example. While it is your responsibility to talk about your
concerns, it's also your responsibility to step back and not argue once a
decision has been reached. And if the outcome doesn't play out as he
anticipated, avoid saying "I told you so." Get back in touch with each
other. In the beginning, couples often
touch each other: holding hands,
stroking hair, hugging, putting their arms around each other. When romance falls away from a marriage,
often the only times people touch is when they want sex. This can make your partner feel used and
unloved.
Why does the touching disappear
after marriage or once you have been intimate.
During courtship, most couples refrain from intimate touching. It’s proper to practice physical restraint in
the early stages of a relationship. But
once you are given the green light to touch in a sexual way, the impulse for
affectionate touching may ebb. After the
intense pleasure of sexual touch, a simple hug can pale by comparison. But women need that non-sexual
touch. As children, we like to be
cuddled. Think of how good it feels when
your partner snuggles up against you.
Women never lose that strong need to be held. Men need to be tuned into this desire and
start that touching again. She will
respond in ways that you’ll be happy with and when it comes time for the sexual
touch, she’ll be much more receptive! Remember that compliments are
free. When you are dating, chances are
that the compliments were free-flowing.
After you’ve been married awhile, the compliments start to go away.
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