The First Encounter, The First Date

The First Encounter, The First Date

One of the most common pieces of advice women and even men give to people looking to become better in the dating scene is "JUST BE YOURSELF".

Some people see this advice as wrong because "just be yourself" requires no work, and without work one cannot get anything in life. These people that feel trying to improve oneself is the way to go in the dating scene.

Let me give you my insight on this topic.

First of all, depending on who says "just be yourself" changes the meaning.

For example, if a novice says "just be yourself" he means to do nothing and just let fate take its course. On the other hand, if an experienced guru on dating says "just be yourself" then it has a totally different meaning.

Being yourself, your true self that nature intended you to be, requires a lot of work. It requires that you first remove all the doubt and fear you have of women, for when you have fear and doubt then you are not being yourself. It means removing all guilt



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