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You could dramatically increase the amount of women
you date just by offering each one that you're interested in a chance to get to
know you even better. If one says no... who cares? The next 2 will say yes. But
ALWAYS make the offer. The 14 year old kid at the drive thru isn't afraid
of you saying "No thanks, and you shouldn't be afraid of some woman saying
the same thing. Remember, talking to women is not a sporting
competition that you either win or lose. She's a real person who's giving you
an opportunity to get to know her. She won't always make it so easy for you,
but just keep trying. Focusing on "getting a result" from the
interaction is a huge mistake. It makes her feel like you see her as a
"task" that needs to be completed instead of a person. Do your best to get to know her, and forget about
getting phone numbers and emails. When you become genuinely interested in the
women you talk to, the phone numbers and emails will pile up faster than you
can count them!
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