Rule 7: Don't rush the dating process - build the mystery - forcing repells attraction

 

Again, this goes with keeping busy. Never see a girl more then twice a week for at least the first 10 to 20 dates. Seriously. I know you will want to spend all your time with someone if you think she's the one, but, you need to build the attraction, not force it.

 

This way is best for both of you. I feel most guys will settle for a girl because she wants a relationship, even tho she might not be the girl for him.

 

Take your time, have fun, date multiple women, it's ok.

 

Rule 8: Let things go, the past is the past - but always tell it as it is - no hangups!

 

Every one has a past, and if I've made any mistake too much, its this one. You have to accept people for who they are, if you really like someone, leave the past where it belongs, in the past.

 

We all have baggage. Of course, there are limits.

 

Rule 9: Don't write sappy emails ever, never write anything because of fear or insecurity

 

What is it with guys and writing sappy letters or emails when they feel like they are losing the girl or have lost the girl.

 

If a girl breaks up with you, let it go, move on with your life, start dating again and you will find this will bring back love quicker then a sappy email professing your undying love for the girl.

 

Think before you speak, think before you type!

 

Rule 10: Girls find a guy hot when he has a plan for life - IE I told a girlfriend about my dreams for life

 

I don't know what it is, but when your talking about something your passionate about, people are naturally attracted to you.

 

I use to date a girl who played guitar and she was so passionate about it, it was a real turn on. She knew what she wanted to be and I found that sexy.