Introduction

Whether your relationship is a new romance or one that has passed the test of time, there are probably days where you wonder how to keep the fires burning.

 

As time passes, and you settle into a comfortable relationship, you may find it all too easy to relax and forget the ‘romance’.  Suddenly you feel that something is missing. 

 

Perhaps your spouse or partner has complained that the romance is missing from your relationship.  Maybe YOU are the one who has noticed the change. 

 

And now, it is time to do something about it. 

 

But, you aren’t sure what you are supposed to do!

 

You don’t have to be a creative person, or even a dreamer or a hopeless romantic to get things back on track.

 

Most people just need a ‘starter kit’, a set of ideas and concepts they can use to get the juices flowing. 

 

After that, you will probably find that you can come up with plenty of ideas on your own. 

 

The only thing you need is the desire to put romance in your life and to spend a little time and energy focusing on your relationship.  Take the time to pay attention to your love life!

 

It may sound corny or trite, but putting some romance in your life will improve your relationship and ensure that your partner knows he or she is loved and valued. 

 

If you invest a little energy in the process, you’ll find that soon you and your partner, spouse, fiancé or new love will come up with new ways to surprise each other and take pleasure and interest in keeping the process going.  

 

The men in the crowd may feel that they don’t know where to start, or that they don’t have a romantic bone in their bodies.  The women may feel that they will expect too much or that they will overwhelm their partners.