You can start small with a local coffee shop or restaurant and a movie you all want to see, or you can have everyone over to your house for movie night. 

 

Everyone brings a potluck dish or a bottle of wine or a dessert (if you want to do just dessert and coffee) and you enjoy the movie together. 

 

Then, if it really takes off, you can plan those more special events on a bus to the city to see a show and have dinner or to go to a local resort within driving distance for a great lunch and a stroll on their grounds.

 

Whatever you can create and imagine can be done.  Engage everyone in the planning so you don’t have to do all the work and watch it take off!

 

Surprising Sexy Ideas

Here are some sexy ideas to put romance and surprise back in your life:

1. Arrive at their door wearing only a coat.  Throw some massage oil and a candle and matches in your coat pocket and have fun!
2. Buy a can of whipped cream, chocolate sauce and maraschino cherries, cover your bed or other surface with spare sheets or blankets that you can wash afterwards, and ‘decorate’ your skin surface these tasty treats. 
3. Follow the instructions in #2 above, and add ice cream to make human sundaes!
4. Turn off all the lights, put on some romantic music, light a few candles and slowly undress your partner.  Then have your partner SLOWLY undress you.
5. Play strip poker
6. Take a picture of yourself in a sexy outfit or in the nude, if you wish, and give it to your partner to carry in their wallet or keep in a secret location. 

Even if you don’t think your body is attractive, you can drape yourself in a beautiful scarf or a colorful blanket and position your nude arms and legs so they show outside the covering you are wearing.