Your partner will get the idea!

Wear a nice piece of jewelry to dress up the nude or nearly nude look and get the lighting just right so that it is romantic – perhaps a dim lamp or a lamp with a sexy scarf draped over it to make the lighting right, or just a lot of candles to set the mood. 

A video is even better if you like posing and acting for the camera.  You can purse your lips and send a great big kiss by video for that moment when your partner wants to revel in your sexiness and you are not around.

      7.   When your partner comes home after a long day, wait until they get in the shower and then sneak in on them with some great scented body gel. 

Take a nice hot shower together with a loofah or a washcloth and wash their back and body.  Let them do the same for you!

 

The ‘Two-Way Street’

Remember that romance is a two-way street.  If you are trying to get some romance back into your life, or trying to hit it off with a new love, let your partner know what you are trying to do and enjoy the creative process together.

 

Know your partner well enough to know whether your changed behavior will be a pleasant surprise OR just perceived as odd or unusual behavior. 

 

If your partner needs to be ‘in the mood’ you probably shouldn’t surprise them until they are used to your new habits!

 

Take a look at the answers you gave to the questions about your partner’s preferences and decide how you want to approach this.

 

Some people may want to surprise their partner first with a new romantic idea or event and THEN tell them that they’d like to keep this kind of thing going as an ongoing treat for the both of them.