You don’t want to feel like you are being phony or fake, or it will not work.

 

Before you begin, think carefully about yourself as a person and what YOU find romantic and sexy, and then think about your partner and what THEY find romantic and sexy. 

 

Review the profiles and questions you completed as you read this book and look for clues there and then begin.

 

Do what feels right for you! 

 

If it feels right to start off with a BANG, by all means DO SO.  If it feels right to start with a gentle WHISPER, that’s OK too!

 

This is YOUR romance. 

 

You are one-half of a very specific, unique couple and you should never try to be something you are not. 

 

You may find a hidden lothario inside your quiet demeanor, or you may find that the BIG, BOLD, BRASSY lover you want to be is actually a gentle poet at heart! 

 

There is no right or wrong answer for everyone – just what is right, what FEELS right, for you and your partner.

 

As your romantic adventures proceed, stay in touch with your own feelings and your partner’s feelings about what is happening. 

 

Talk about what is working and what is NOT working, if anything, and make changes, as appropriate.

 

You may think that your spouse, fiancé, girlfriend or boyfriend REQUIRES the sexiest, most romantic partner ever seen on this earth. 

 

You may feel you have to rush home with flowers every night and shower your partner with gifts or whisper sweet nothings to them every minute you are together.

 

In fact, your partner may be perfectly happy with the little things you do every day to show them that you care. 

 

It is critical not to neglect your partner or your romantic life together, but you don’t want to overdo it or try to become someone else either – so be sure you know the right balance for YOU as a COUPLE!