#	Question	Answer
13	What recreational activity does your partner like best?  (dancing, jogging, biking, horseback riding, sports, etc.)
14	Does your partner prefer a hot bath or a long shower to relax?
15	Does your partner prefer red wine or white wine?
16	Does your partner like public displays of affection or is he/she a very private person when it comes to romance
17	If you had to dress in something sexy for your partner, what would they like the best?
18	What kind of music puts your partner ‘in the mood’?
19	When your partner is distracted or upset, does he/she find words, or touch, more comforting or perhaps both?
20	What is the fastest way to turn your partner off?  What pathetic or revolting attempt at sexiness would they find unsexy or unromantic?

 

You may wonder why this exercise is important. 

 

Very simply, these answers will help you personalize your romantic experience with your partner. 

 

If you found it hard to answer some or most of these questions, you don’t have to give up on romance.  Just take the time to ask questions and find out more about what appeals to your partner. 

 

It doesn’t have to be an interview or inquisition. 

 

You can start by saying something like “You know, from the pictures I’ve seen, I always thought the Caribbean would be a romantic place.  If you could pick a romantic spot to go, where would it be?”

 

By asking your partner questions, you will find out who they are TODAY, and not have to depend on 20-year-old conversations you had during your first date. 

 

Remember, a big part of romance is knowing what makes the other person tick and showing how much you care by doing something THEY will like.