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Love and physical attraction may take the backseat,
especially when the children arrive, but fulfilled couples know that they must
stick it out, through thick and thin, for the sake of the emotional well-being
of the children. When couples think of others and not just themselves and make
a continuing effort to make the marriage work, they’ve made the best investment
they could ever make and they firmly believe in this. The need to make the partnership work is often the secret of
happy marriages. As Masters and Johnson
said, “Although these marriages may be loveless, they are not necessarily
bad. Even good marriages are susceptible
to a disappearance of love.”[1] Marriage and Instinct
Dr. Mary Pipher, a therapist and anthropologist, points to
the family as still an essential unit of the community. When people get married, their hopes are
linked to building a home and family. [1] William Masters, Virginia Johnson, Robert Kolodny. Masters and Johnson on Sex and Human Loving. Little, Brown & Company, Ltd. USA. 1985.
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