view marriage as a fusion, making two separate individuals
one, we must still keep our own personality and deal with our own problems
ourselves.
“Marriage is ultimately about two
relatively whole individuals coming together to create a union that can be even
greater than the sum of the parts. But
each of us must always be aware that a lack of self-confidence is own separate
job to fix. We can look to our mate for
support, but not for magical solutions.”