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Look back to courtship days when both of you could talk until
the wee hours of the morning because you were interested in what each of you
did in the office that day, in that bookseller or movie, or how the Dow Jones
sparkled because of news about Intel or Microsoft, etc. Enrich each other with your experiences and vicarious
experiences. Let the other know that
you have an interest in life and what it has to offer, and make every effort
not to be a boring mate by reading more, experimenting more, and living more. Alone TimeMany people say that children put a damper on the
marriage. Who has time for love and
passion when the kids are screaming their lungs off or running a 105 degree
fever? Or when money has to be scrounged
for to pay for those expensive braces? Raising children can turn us into impatient, stressed-out
beings so if hiring a baby sitter overnight will not disrupt the monthly
budget, do so and go away – just the two of you.
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