This state of “disposableness” is reflected in our ability to DELETE and PURGE and SHRED what we no longer need. 

 

And when our once beloved partner is no longer of use to us, we call our lawyer and instruct him/her to initiate divorce proceedings. 

 

Funny, but despite its harrowing and complex web, divorce has also become just a phone call away, a “to go” solution that we can pick up on the way to cleaner’s.

 

Truth is, is that divorce has an ugly side to it.  It’s the easy way out for people who have not an ounce of courage to salvage what deserves to be salvaged. 

 

Divorce un-builds and undoes what took years to nurture,  and sadly, often the only people who benefit from it are greedy lawyers who will use every trick in the book to divest the other of  assets, until no remnant of the person’s investment – physical, monetary and emotional – remains.

 

While divorcing couples spend their mental energies accusing the other of causing hurt and disharmony in the union, they forget that the children suffer in double – triple dosages.  Couples forget that the sentiments of children are more fragile and harder to