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If he can’t take the time to keep his commitment to
her, then he deserves to come home to a big, fat $500.00 receipt! Tony finishes his golf match and has a slight twinge of
conscience, so he decides to call home and see if Tina wants to go out to
dinner that night. When he calls, Tina is not there. “The hell with it”, he thinks. “She’ll call me when she gets back.” Tony has a late lunch and a few drinks at the golf club and
loses track of time. He and his buddies start talking to a few women at the club
and one of them is flirting pretty heavily.
Tony is flattered. He
thinks about the fact that Tina no longer tells him he is attractive and
silently revels in the attention from this beautiful young woman. In the meantime, Tina comes home to an empty house. She had expected Tony to be waiting for her when she got
home and she is angry. “I’m not about to cook his stupid dinner so he can come
rolling in whenever he likes and sit down to a hot meal”, she thinks. She grabs a package of crackers and a soda and goes into the
bedroom to watch a movie. When Tony comes home, it is late. He smells of cigarette smoke and alcohol and
Tina is even more annoyed. She doesn’t even say hello to him. He goes into the bathroom and takes a shower and when he
comes out, he notices the bag with the comforter on the chair. He looks at the receipt and loses his temper, yelling about
their finances and her irresponsibility. Tina leaves the house and calls She is angry and she stays out late just to make Tony
worry. When she comes home, Tony is
sleeping. Another day has come and gone and their marriage is in worse
shape than ever. What is going on here? Do you have some ideas about what these two
people can do to improve their marriage?
Do you think their marriage is better or worse than
yours? Before we close, we’ll look in on Tina
and Tony again and see what happened to them. If you decided your marriage
is in trouble, and you want to save it, your goal should be great than simply
avoiding divorce. Your goal should be to
improve your marriage and to make it as healthy as possible. You and your spouse will be happier if you
don’t accept a mediocre outcome.
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