It may be hard to break
these old habits, but once they know you mean business, they are likely to drop
the subject.
If your family disapproves
of your marriage or spouse, they may jump at the chance to drive a wedge
between you, hoping to make your marriage fail in the belief that this is best
for you.
You have to take charge of
this and put a stop to their attempts to wrest control out of your hands, or
you will never regain control of your marriage or your happiness with your
spouse.